This is something you do not want to be thinking about, but it is true. There are good and bad liars who can hide things they are doing behind your back. This does not mean they are good people, they are only good in their lying game. Here are some tips that will help you know if your husband is cheating on you.
1. Change is sex life – if you had an active sex life with your husband and you understand how his libido works, it will be easy for you to spot any changes. If he is seeing someone else, chances are he will slow down a little.
2. Getting healthy – this is a tough one but you will not have much trouble if you know your husband well. If your husband becomes vegetarian or starts jogging out of nowhere, chances are he is seeing someone else and you should be suspicious.
3. Change in appearance – if your husband suddenly develops a great interest in how he looks and how he dresses you should be worried. This a tell-tale sign of a cheating husband. This is the same idea when it comes to his wardrobe.
4. Strange phone calls – with the introduction of mobile phones, landlines are rarely used but it should not be hard for you to know a strange call. You should look for strange behaviors when he receives calls.
5. New habits – if your husband used to come home early and eat dinner with you as you watch a movie till you fall asleep, you should use that as a baseline for your husband behaviors. If he develops side habits like going out with friends or shopping alone you should get suspicious.
6. Laundry leftovers – by this I mean any lipstick or strange perfume in his clothes. You should look for this when you are doing the laundry.
7. New interests – if you notice new interests like taking classes or a new sport or hobby, he might be using that as an excuse to meet the other woman. However, this could be one of the signs of mid-life crisis.
8. New purchase – you have maintained a 4-door sedan and all over sudden he wants a 2-door sport car, this is a bad sign. It is a way of trying to impress someone who is not you.
9. New vocabulary – it is a human behavior to use new words that are used by people around us. You should look out for this one too.
10. Unexplained change in work schedule – you should know your husband well and his work schedule too, if you notice an abrupt change in the work schedule, you should be suspicious.
These signs can be the factor to hire a cheating spouse investigator for further proof and validations.